Teachings, Courses, & Retreats

Demons in Love How to Transform Relationship Challenges into Wisdom

Date & Time Details:
November 8, 2026
November 22, 2026
9:30am - 3:00pm MDT

Location:
Online- Zoom

Demons in Love How to Transform Relationship Challenges into Wisdom

with Lama Tsultrim Allione, Dorje Lopön Charlotte Rotterdam and Lopön Pieter Oosthuizen

November 8 - 22, 2026

with Lama Tsultrim Allione, Dorje Lopön Charlotte Rotterdam and Lopön Pieter Oosthuizen

Our relationships are among our greatest teachers. They can bring joy, intimacy, and a sense of belonging, and they can just as readily expose our deepest fears, reactive patterns, and unmet needs. Surprisingly, the places where we experience the most conflict or disconnection are often where transformation is most available.

Workshop Overview

Join Lama Tsultrim Allione, Dorje Lopön Charlotte Rotterdam, and Lopön Pieter Oosthuizen for this two-day online course. Using the Feeding Your Demons® process, a powerful method for working directly with the emotions and patterns that drive our suffering, you’ll learn to transform relational obstacles into doorways of awareness, insight, and compassion.

What You’ll Learn

  • Identify and work with the emotions, beliefs, and habitual patterns that shape how you show up in relationships.
  • Apply the Feeding Your Demons process directly to uncover the wisdom held within your most challenging relationships.
  • Meet difficult instances in your relationships with curiosity and compassion rather than avoidance or suppression.
  • Integrate practice into daily life between sessions and build on real experience in the second gathering.

Prerequisites

There are no prerequisites. All are welcome to join.

Schedule (US Mountain Standard Time)

Time Zone Reminder: All times are listed in Mountain Standard Time (Denver, Colorado). As Daylight Saving Time ends in the United States on Sunday, November 1, we encourage all participants to double-check the schedule in their local time zone. Please use this link to view how the daily schedule translates to your location.

Sunday, November 8

  • 9:00 AM – 11:30 AM: Morning Session
  • 1:00 PM – 3:00 PM: Afternoon Session

Sunday, November 22

  • 9:00 AM – 11:30 AM: Morning Session
  • 1:00 PM – 3:00 PM: Afternoon Session

Investment:

Choose the pricing tier that best supports your circumstances:

  • Supported Level: $160
  • Sustaining Level: $222
  • Benefactor Level: $315

Whether you’re navigating tension with a partner, family member, friend, or colleague, or deepening your relationship with yourself, this course offers an experiential framework for more authentic connection and lasting inner change.

Recording
A recording of both sessions will be available on the Feeding Your Demons Network approximately 24 hours after each live event. While we warmly encourage you to join live if possible, you will have access to the recording for 1 year. You can join the Feeding Your Demons Network for free by clicking here.

Mental Health Disclaimer
While Tara Mandala offers profound Buddhist teachings and a supportive spiritual community, we do not provide mental health services, and our teachers are not operating as mental health professionals. Spiritual guidance provided by a Tara Mandala teacher is not a substitute for professional mental health support. We honor the importance of mental well-being and encourage community members seeking support to connect with licensed professionals in their local area. For immediate assistance with mental health concerns, please contact your local crisis resources or emergency services.

Date & Time Details:
November 8, 2026
November 22, 2026
9:30am - 3:00pm MDT

Location:
Online- Zoom

About the Teachers

Lama Tsultrim Allione
Lama Tsultrim Allione Lama Tsultrim Allione is the bestselling author of Women of Wisdom (1984), Feeding Your Demons (2008), and Wisdom Rising Journey into the Mandala of the Empowered Feminine (2018). Lama Tsultrim is the founder of Tara Mandala, a 700-acre retreat center with a three-story temple and library dedicated to the divine…
Dorje Lopön Charlotte Rotterdam
Dorje Lopön Charlotte Rotterdam Dorje Lopön Charlotte Z. Rotterdam has studied Tibetan Buddhism since the mid 1990’s, and was authorized to teach by Lama Tsultrim Allione in 2006. She received the title of Magyu Lopön, lead teacher of Magyu: The Mother Lineage at Tara Mandala, from Lama Tsultrim in 2016, and Dorje Lopön, Vajra…
Lopön Pieter Oosthuizen
Lopön Pieter Oosthuizen Lopön Pieter Oosthuizen is a Senior Teacher in Lama Tsultrim Allione’s lineage, Director of The Feeding Your Demons Institute, and co-author of Skymind: The Radical Path of Open Awareness. His journey arcs from the wild edges of apartheid-era Johannesburg to the heart of contemplative practice. As a boy, he roamed the…